How to book an escort…
Booking an escort doesn’t have to be hard. I often hear people complaining about how their date went wrong or couldn’t even get to the date part. For this reason, I’ve decided to write down the most critical steps of what you can do to book the perfect escort for your needs.
It is not the companion’s job to decide what you want. She can fulfill your desires only if they are not breaking her boundaries. To find the perfect escort, you first need to know yourself. It can be a spiritual journey through girls, too (I often feel more like a psychologist than a sex worker, haha), but it will cost a lot of money for you and will not always lead to satisfaction. Maybe a therapist would work better for this.
Once you have figured out yourself, your kinks, your desires, fetishes, you can start your research. Yes, you need to research a lot. If you really would like to have the perfect date, you have to work for it.
You could think that agencies are for this, but I highly recommend independent escorts. It’s never certain that agencies will send the companion you choose. Or if the girl is forced.
There are many different kinds of kinks, and it is totally okay. It doesn’t mean, though, that all sex workers must also put up with them. The good news is that it is more than possible to find somebody who can do the best service for your needs.
I offer girlfriend experience (GFE), but I’ve still got many inquiries about fetishes. Very specified ones, like BDSM, domination, asking me to carry them, knife fetish, or once I even had a request about driving through somebody with a car. (with the last one, I’m pretty sure you won’t be able to find a professional escort to do it, haha).
Girlfriend experience is something you can translate literally. It means something more intimate and personal. Although it doesn’t mean you can get to have sex without condoms. There are only a few high-end companions who offer sex without protection. (STD tests are not 100% safe, it doesn’t show everything, and there are many photoshop masters). Even though fetishes are not included, they can be an extra service you can check on the companion’s escort page or website.
When you find a girl you like on an escort page, check if it is connected to her actual website and social media.
Trust me, if you want to find the perfect dating partner, you will have to search for someone with a website and social media. It is professional and a great indicator, and can rule out fakes. (there are some exceptions when independent professional escorts only use escort pages).
I recommend you read through everything on the website, and you will find your answers. Clients often don’t read it carefully and ask questions that have already been answered. It is time-saving for the client and the companion, too.
On social media, like Twitter or Instagram, you can glimpse your potential escort’s everyday life, her vibe, or even beliefs, which can significantly help your decision.
When ready with your research, don’t contact the escort on social media, only if they specifically ask it. You can find how we would like to be contacted on our websites 100% of the time.
When it is asked to send an email, try to be polite and respectful. Don’t type everything in the subject line. I often receive emails that don’t even contain a message, only the subject is filled with something like: “tnght 7 in my hotel”. I don’t think I have to explain why I don’t answer those emails.
A one-sentence introduction is enough, then the desired date and place, your fetish, or other wants.
Websites usually contain a booking form. It makes it easier for you to fill them out correctly, so please complete them thoroughly, and only when you are sure about your booking.
Be patient after you send your inquiry. We work and have a life, so we are not constantly checking our emails. Can’t even count on my hands how often I received follow-up emails when I didn’t answer immediately. You want your dream woman straight away, but you must consider our time. We provide a service here. We have to schedule appointments and take care of everything. Many sex workers are fully booked months in advance.
The screening process and deposit are also almost always part of the booking. The deposit can be a percentage of the booking fee, so we can protect ourselves from last-minute cancellations. Screening can contain asking for a Linkedin profile, ID, video chat, reference from another escort, etc.
When you are worried about your privacy, think about how we put ourselves out every day and that this screening process is for our safety. If you really did your research and booked a professional companion, you can be 100% sure your privacy is safe.
I already mentioned that I recommend booking an independent escort. A few places where there is a big culture of independent escorts: are Brussels, London, Amsterdam, Paris, Milan, and Budapest.
With these in mind, I think you’ll be able to book the perfect escort. I also would like to write about what is a good date, so I’ll keep you updated when the next blog is coming.
